A blow job with that coffee?
Would like a blow job with the coffee?
I am laughing to myself like a teenager when I think about that phrase , we ,,, we adults t hink about sex as the same as teenagers we ...You also young master fucking play ili' games and chuckle and laugh hiding you discomfort and shyness ........ and I gotta realized my own tendency to atleast feel it , not ignore it , because everytime I gnore reality it comes back later creeping back into pyshce into my personality and bites me in the ass , and that hurts , and fucks things up ........... WHAT DO I WANT ! she wants to be my TREASURE ! the idea of being treasured by me made he weep her head down hiding it to herself ,, her deepest inner desire to be wanted and needed by some one who feels her presence in his life makes her his greatest treasure ..... MY GREATEST TREASURE . but to realize that I must realize myself and my wants ,,, and those wants reflect things that I feel are personal and private weakness on my part ......... ( even though it may not be really weakness ... but male egop views it as such )
In advertising ... sometimes the headline must first ID the need ,, the problem that the reader my have in their life , the subhead hints at that your product/service satifies the problem the reader has ,, then the body goes over the details .... Often my style of approaching my girl is to first present my logic ,,, to talk about the problem ( which maybe my my own ) then the logic the benefit to her then the solutions ......... it can seem every much a hassle ,,,, but to just present the soloution often leads to a buck form the people I am looking to lead ......... old mamagement habits .
So , the issue is sex ..... great fun for her great fun and a need of mine .... Now a good girl does not like to ask for sex ,, she has been trained by the world not to ask for sex or ... or offer sex ... good girls do not do that .. right ! .... But is my treasure my slave is she supposed to satisfy the world OR ME? Me I need to train her to satify me .. what I want .. what will make me happiest amd most relaxed , yet a part of me is always tied to my own old programming of what is correct and moral ( kinda moral is the worng word ) but what is right .... I gotta pass these things or the old problems will return ,, that is a fact ,, we have seen it in our own life just over the last few weeks ,,, I saw it yesterday in meeting a friend at the supermarket and finding out hee is in divorce court ,,,, again over and over the fairy tale the WAY that SHOULD work DOES NOT ! work . And I want this very pretty girl Debbie to be my truest treasure ,,, I gotta have the wear with all to do what is right for us! .......... And that meant thinking about wants and whys ,,,, and the whys were important but I amy get into them later important young mster for you to think about your past and learn form it ,,,,
So my problem is sex , amking sure it is the constant recreation ,, that we engage in sex first watch movies , or do other things second , because when a couple is engaged in sex play in the sexual teasing like I did to her yesterday ,,, she and I are closer than at any other time ,, I am totally focused on her and she on me , and we are high our blood streams full of feel good hormones the drugs of love and desire ....... There is no real good reason that any thing else should interfere wit our BEST time our closet time our ex time,,, really every time that fairy tale idea that other things like sports or movies or work or money or anything else is equal in importance to sex , the people who live as the Fairy tale recommends ,, well they become the friend I met in the supermarket line ,,,, now , look at DOM/subbies who truly live the lifestyle fully ,,, that she gives totally of herself , gives up her ego with her DOM ,,, then they make it and make it strong for ever that I have seen ,,, but the EGO of both must mesh ,, the DOM must build his in terms of the relationship and she must decrease hers in terms of the relationship .... I was reading about submissive ego in a book about a female Domonmatirx pro who became a Subbie/slave and found happiness becoming a treasure by becoming an OBJECT .... The extreme lead to actually her becoming the most important thing in her masters life by becoming something that form the outside was treated as having no ... no .. value .. strange ( yin and yang if you think deeply )
The problem stated above .... The solution we already both accept the MASTER/slave contract .... The 3 month training contract .... Think of it like a plant ,, the seed of a relationship will germinate in a few days ,, the love willl grow .. the baby plant pokes it's leaf above the soil ,,, but it takes a season for the roots to grow for the plant to become stable ..... a season a summer ...3 months ... now 21 days will make a habit but even positive habits are very easy to fall out of ...... so the 3 months helps the need ,, the roots to grown deep into our souls and understanding .........
Here is a detail .... An order from MASTER ( the I want you to form a DOM to a true subbie who hearing those words thinks first of his want .... Or does she ? what comes to mind first ? honestly later ia the relationship goes into the Fairy tale state what does come th mind of the subbie after the first dating weeks passby ? ) she already askes me if I want this or that , if I want another coffee . or if she should take away the paltes or the coffee cups .... are you done? Do you want me to take your cup ? ..... what would you like for dinner ? so many thing she offers to do for me .......... Well now add something to each and everyone of those loving questions of service offer ... yes offer .... Offer YOURSELF slave girl ( I have been using salve girl in person at certain minutes of desire and passion to prep the mind to touch the fansty ) oooh the want K.I.S.S keep it simple sam ..... after each of her questions I want her to say ... do you want a blow job with that .. and to make sure that she offers each genral type of sex act I expect her to change the offer each time , blow job ... do you want to fuck my pussy .. my ass ... hand job .. do you want to tease and play with me just to watch me cummm MASTER ? mpw saying master out in the vanilla world can be uncomfortable for both of us our family listening even though the adults family members know our LIFE STYLE chooses the younger ones will be confused and also strangers ....... Asking things like that aloud can also be uncomfortable but a whisper in my ear can work wonders ... so ... in the presence of other whisper your other offer in my ear .
We have not realy gotten into DISIPLINE to spanking for a real reason .... Here is an OP ... ( honestly this ties big time into my past confusuions about BDSM over a decade ago having a girl who I spanked to satify her sexual desries , but was finding that she was twisting it in her mind and experience into pusnishment ... wow I was not ready way back then .... But NOW ... I am more ready ... WHEN THE STUDENT IS READY THE TEACHER WILL APPEAR ) to disiplein ,,, to live and understand the truth under lieing a current popular movie Running With Scissors .... The idea the love of putting out limits and holding the ones you love to those limits ,,, especially in a MASTER / slave learning contract . I have to discipline her , to spank her for real with my RIGHT TO DO IT understond and wanted ... wanted .. by both ... she in tears weeping on her knees in front of me ... wants to be A TREASURE ! I must be a man ! and spank that qwhich I love an respect ... I respect ofr her strength her intelligence her guts ... her in every way the fairy tale says should be enough for us to live happy ever after YET WE WOULD FAIL IN THE FAITY TALE WORLD ...... can you feel young amster the confusion have you felt it in your own life ?
Now the idea of offering sex ..... gives me the right to take her up on the offer 10 times a day ........... we will be doing that activity which we human animals were designed to enjoy as our main ,,, main form of recreation ,, the core ,, that brought her and I together ,, you andevery woman you have ever been sexual with became sexual because of ... our animal deepest DNA drive for sex .. recreational sex ,, we as animals are NOT ! limited to having sex during a rutting season like many animals NO! we are designed to enjoy lots and lots of recreational sex ... like we did bofre all the great fun things that money can buy came into our lives before stores and shit and buyin beer and watching TV .. our animal recreation was to spend all day just fucking slowly watching your female CUMM!
By forcing her to offer sex to me ... I force her to break her good girl persona.. her fake fairy tale self .. in my presence and become a treasure to me! A TREASURE TO ME .... To me , my treasure . She offers her body for OUR RECREATION . ( why do I want this , that oges back to all my past training and programming to deal with females stemming as far back as the interactions with the mother ... dipshit my friend you gotta kinda go over all your programming and interactions and learn what is GOOOD FOR YOU ! ,, THEN let her satify that that need for .. the BOTH of you . what is good for you is what is good for her RiGHT that is what she says when she askes to become your subbie your slave girl )
