NO ! Master before you
No MASTER before you
Wow has that ever worked for the catholic church or what ,,, the idea that people will choose to serve a master even a master they can not see .... Give it their money , go to war and die for it , adjust their ex life because of it ,,,, 1000's and 1000's of years this idea has HELPED millions find a place in the confusion ........ YES I SAID HELPED even thought governments and churches have abused the trust of the people and had them die in the name of their master - god ...
The subbie the slave ( remember I will use the slave word to explore extremes to mentally swing the pendulum of conditioning you have been exposed to in your life young master ) she is a pleaser she is searching for something ,,,, YOU? Maybe maybe not ......... like in a church people will gladly find peace in service , and to stop the confusion of ages past with to many gods , the Romans learned that 1 god was the ticket ( THEN AND ON SUB GODDS in the form of the trinity and all the saints and shit ,,, but in the end they are like you just part and parcel of INFINITY the Toa . So your subbie can get confused to easy and by joining with you she has 1 focus you , your happiness , her esteem in your eyes first .... Everyone else comes second ,,, she must trust that you work in her best interest and that may mean in the best interest of her family or kids , like a religion a good god , a good father . BDSM is so very complex when you study and not just see the sex play of the scene . Her day to day focus is all about how you feel and think .... WWJD what would jesus do .... She thinks about you .... And the subbie the pleaser all to often can get distracted by the demands of life it causes her stress o , by thinking first about you she has a focus .... No longer is she a victum to " divide and conquer " she can move away from any stress and put the responsibility on you .... Here is some thing tghat happened twice today ..... divided attention on the phone and my reactions to it ... one was my girl friend ..... ( no she is not a slave or even truly yet a real subbie , yet ... no I am wrong she is inherently subbie but not a lead/ dominated subbie let me say that ) so on the phone with me she , was bing interrupted by 2 other people ,,, I could feel her stress in her voice , the type of stress that brings out in her ... her dominate side the side she realy does not like because having to be DOM is stressful to her ........ no one got her attention she was being torn apart ,,, in the MASTER/ slave contract that she ( a subbie will have choosen free will like choosing to serve a god from a book an idea a theory) she would stop and put her attention her focus on just 1 thing 1 person me ..... AHHH freedom , no more reason to be a PLEASER TO THE WHOLE !!! WORLD any more she only needs to please 1 person and that is me ! Of course because her best interest is my best interest ,,, finding a good girl subbie ain't easy .... I will choose quickly what I feel is best for her ....... And I said " honey 1 thing let me say the car will get fixed isn't that cool , now go do what you gotta do and have a great lil' vaction ......."" I do not have to wait on the phone feeling ignored by her she does not have to worry about me being unhappy .... And the rest of the world , well the rest of the world will have to wait politely because she ahas responsibilities that come before the rest of the world ,,,, she has her MASTER TO think about ,,, do you get it dipshit ,, do you seee the level of deep helpful service you as king bring to those who let you serve them by ruling them ........ YOU MAKE HER LIFE way simple she only has to worry about that male you young master who she will come home who she will ( or is planning to ) serve for the rest of her life ,,not these other temporary distractions in her day to day life ........ they can wait patiently or go fuck themselves .
Now dumbfuck when you encounter this I want you to feel if you hesitate for second if your mr.nice guy comes back and you start to let her control you and the phone conversation if she is delaying you and you are letting her do it ? fine tothine ownsself be true learn dipshit realize what you are doing the .. old programing that pussy beggar which you were trained to be ...... feel him show up all to often . Yes there seem to be other men more what should I say more DOM bigger stronger their presence send off waves of threatening power ,,,,, but in reality the threat of DOM by power I sweakest in todays legal world ,, if that DOM acts he goes into a cage where he has no pussy into the legal system , so YOUNG MASTER , understand learn for the ancient romans about the mental aspects of SELF CONTROL ... informed choice .
See , the other call later today was from one of my daughters .... That relationship is way different since the day of her birth they talbes have been turned .... I was and still am the beneficial father a leader who cares and protects and yet demands ....... So when she was distracted , I responded without hesitation ....... With " are you talking with ________ or me ? " forcing her to make the choice at her age is fine she is no longer my lil' girl but our relationship and way of treating and interacting is respectful and carring towars each other ,,, two important people in each others lives .... Respect and love ....
YOUR slave young master ,,, is not a game ,, some one who you will just put a collar on and put in the corner ,,, no that is just fanasty stuff scene stuff .... Study pussy young master study and learn the complexity of BDSM and realize the complexity and meanings and benefits behind the exploring and writing of contracts ....... Explore the extreme because remember the failed relationship of your present and past are only the extreme of todays FAIRY TALE ..... just as MASTER/slave is the extreme of DOM/subbie .....
