MASTER/slave contracts

Posted on 2007-02-15

MASTER/salve contracts

 

The name Master or slave ,,, DOM or subbie ,, gives a feeling to people of the sorth or importance of one [person over another ,,,, nothing can be more wrong ,,,, it is 2 people realizing the animal within and then fighting with life reality and old programming to get back to SYNC with their inner nature ,, onw can not be ... without the other .... Like the title SIR the daily rep[eating of the nature ,, the something my words are not flowing . but the recongning of our ... our choice .... The contract is written ,, it is there to describe our ..our wants ... to help us remember who we realy are and why we went down this road in the first place ....

 

When we first read about the contract , I said , this is not for us ... at this time ,, we need to study more , to learn about ourselves ...and for us to encounter and address the old habit patterns we will fail back into ... well we did fall back into old patterns ... and now after reading contracts form others in books we are studing about the DOM/sub lifestyle we can no more appriecate ,, the benefits of written contracts and time lines .... The idea we can frame the contract hang it on our bedroom wall to remind ourselves of WHY ,, why we are together ,, it is not just sex and spanking ... no it more real more deep ,, more important ..... it is the everything else that fucks up the great sex ,,,, those parts are what are expressed in the sexual contract , the under lying themes ,, and motives .

 

Lots more to be writeen by me on the contracts I will suggest . ,my  view of the mountain range ,,,, that consists of 2 mountains .... Each mountain only seeing the other mountain  form one point of view at a time .... Not seeing the volcanic action taking place within. Hidden within .


Fart Squirreling | (2007-02-15)
We aren’t static creatures. Contractual relationships aren’t necessary nor are they legally binding in any way, so what is the point? Perhaps a different concept is in order that might help take the place of a contract but still afford her the security of one. The word I’m thinking of is ritual. A ritual meeting of the minds, a special time of day or week set aside specifically to go over what is or isn’t working. Changing things when required and perfecting what is working. After all if it is in her to submit and follow your lead, then she has no need of contracts. What I feel she craves is your undivided communicative attention. When two are of a like mind and read each other well there is no need for contracts. ~d~

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